The first time I was forced to do something sexually I was 9 years old. I've lost track of how many times I've been groped or molested. When I was 22, I was raped. I though he was my friend. Guys force themselves onto me all the time. I can not tell you how often I have to be polite when a guy shoves his tongue down my throat because I am scared he will be violent if I say no.
When a female friend tells me they have never been molested or raped, I am shocked because the vast majority of my female friends have experienced sexual assault. Every time I tell my guy friends that most of my female friends have been abused, they are shocked. This doesn't make sense because I am sure these guys have witnessed at least one of their friends being a creep.
Men, it is up to you to change this.
Ask for consent. Every. single. time.
Women, I see you. We are brave. We are resilient.